I think growing as a person and finding your voice in life is a ever present challenge as people.
It seems to be the only reason to walk this earth sometimes. This has been that time for me.
To really know what you want and what you love and how you want to be loved is a very big deal. It can be a tough world out here where you can give yourself away so much that you forget who you are while trying to make other happy.
The problem is we only have one life. And for some that life can be very brief. This year is about learning quality over quanity with the great people you have around you and how you spend your time and energy with them.
Them letting the others that don't give back go. Stay stress free and surrou d yourself with love and it will all be ok.